Wednesday, October 5, 2016

THE JEWISH PEOPLE’S HEARING PROBLEM, AND ITS SOLUTION


ROSH HASHANAH—OCTOBER 3-4, 2016 / 1-2 TISHREI, 5777



L’Shanah Tovah, everyone.  Midway is back together again for this New Year, 5777, and I know you join with me in prayer for a healthy, fulfilling, and peaceful New Year.

An elderly man, faced with the usual medical challenges brought on by old age, feared his wife was losing her hearing and so he decided to create an experiment by which he could determine once and for all if her hearing was failing.  One day, while she was sitting outside reading, he quietly crept up behind her, and from a bit of a distance, he said, “Martha, can you hear me?”  No response.  He crept up a little closer and said, “Martha, can you hear me?”  No response.  Finally, he got right behind her ear, and said, “Martha, can you hear me?”  And Martha replied, “For the third time, ‘Yes.’”

Hearing plays a very important role in Jewish ritual and that is certainly the case on Rosh Hashanah.  We have to hear the shofar blown and allow the blasts to penetrate our souls.  We have to listen to the words of the Torah.  We have to listen to our conscience at this time of year and confess to our shortcomings and failures.  And today, as twice every day, we have to recite the words of Sh’ma, a word which itself means “Hear:” Hear O Israel, the Lord is our God, the Lord is One.  The problem with the Sh’ma is, as with any rote declaration, after about the one thousandth repetition, we may no longer be hearing what the words are really saying.

This year, we have engaged in a very unusual—some might say foolish, others might say daring—exercise, with our prayer services.  We recited the Sh’ma in an unusual way with hopes of hearing it in a way we have never heard it before.  We read Torah in an unusual way with hopes of hearing the Rosh Hashanah reading in a way we have never heard it before.  Why should we tamper with tradition, especially in a community that respects tradition as deeply as ours? 

                We could all come up with a hundred items that distinguish us as Jews, but certainly on top of that list, or in the very least close to the top, would be how we gather for worship and study.
  
Praying is a quintessentially Jewish action, not unique to the Jewish people but certainly characteristic of the Jewish people, and when Jews come to our services and cannot follow them or worst, follow them only to find them uninspiring, that should be a problem for us all.  It’s a problem because if anyone comes to the synagogue and leaves untouched by the words of this great Mahzor, so much of which is steeped in the values we cherish as a people—that’s a problem.  It’s a problem because we have a special relationship with God.  God and the Jewish people—we’re tight!  But in order to maintain that relationship, we need the proper tools, and the tools that are right for one group may not necessarily be right for another.  How do we create a mikra kodesh, a sacred gathering on holidays and festivals, that moves people, that inspires people, that galvanizes people?  This challenge is not new.  And if you want to know just how un-new it is, let’s go back 2500 years to the days of the great prophet Isaiah.

                Isaiah was not someone you’d want to invite over for dinner.  He was testy and critical, and he was always telling us what God had to say.  That said, he was usually right about the things that bothered him.  He had a few words for the Jewish people when it came to prayer or worship.  Isaiah speaks:
My Lord said:
Because that people [he’s talking about us] has approached [Me, and here he is talking about God]
With its mouth, and honored Me with its lips,
But has kept its heart far from Me,
its worship of Me
Merely a commandment of men, learned by rote--….
So the wisdom of its wise ones shall fail
And the prudence of its prudent ones shall vanish.  (Isaiah 29:13-14)

Let me tell you in plain English what Isaiah is saying.  He’s saying that if you come to synagogue, and mumble mindlessly for three or four hours, saying what you’ve said thousands of times before, not necessarily even knowing what you’ve said, and if that is passed off as authentic worship, then eventually, good people will drift away, because they will know, as sure as does God, that prayer without sincerity, prayer with your body in one space and your kishkas somewhere else, is not prayer.

                I heard this great story about the first Chabad rabbi who made his way to the Soviet Union in 1987, when the Perestroika movement, that movement for Reform in the Communist Party was underfoot.  It was the Lubavitcher rebbe who sent one of his sheluhim, one of his emissaries to Kiev to reignite the Jewish souls there who for so long could practice their religious traditions only secretly or at great risk of losing financially and professionally.  And so it came to Kol Nidre, the eve of Yom Kippur, and the synagogue was packed for once in many, many decades.  The hazan chanted Kol Nidre and everyone was moved by the music.  But it was a very traditional service, and in spite of the Hebrew/Russian mahzorim, every word of the mahzor translated, the rabbi could tell that he was losing the congregation.  They simply didn’t know what to do.  They had been away from prayer for so long.  So the rabbi decided he would, break the monotony and tell a story about the Ba’al Shem Tov that would illustrate that you don’t need to be a Talmudic scholar to touch God.  So he tells this story. 

                Once, the Ba’al Shem Tov (Israel ben Eliezer, aka: Ba’al Shem Tov 1700-1760), the charismatic and influential founder of the modern day Hasidic movement, sensed that the good Lord above was on the verge of sentencing the Jewish people in a harsh manner.  And as such, the Ba’al Shem encouraged his Hasidim, in this little Polish town, to pray with all their heart, all their might and all their soul. So the Hasidim went to work—that is, they prayed fervently.  But it wasn’t working.   A poor, untutored shepherd was in the back of the shtibel and he wanted to join in, but he didn’t know how to pray.  So he opened up the prayer book, and the first page as in so many of these European prayer books was the Hebrew alphabet.  And he read the alphabet out loud and then shouted to God—Look, I don’t know Hebrew, but I know the letters, so I give You the letters and You assemble them the way they need to be assembled.”  And at that point, the rabbi in Kiev said, the Ba’al Shem Tov knew that the community was saved because all that was required for a prayer to be real was for the prayer to be recited with utter sincerity.  And that poor illiterate shepherd had pierced the heavens in a way that no other Hasid in the room could.

The Jews of Kiev loved that story.  They related.  And all of a sudden, one heard resounding through the expansive sanctuary of the Kiev synagogue someone who shouted, “Alef.”  And a few people responded “Alef.”  And the same voice was heard, “Beis.”  And now more of the congregation returned the call, “Beis.”  And after a minute or two, the whole congregation had recited the entire Hebrew alphabet.  It was a havayah—an experience, unforgettable and profound.  For that community, at that time, in that place, the alphabet was the most sincere prayer uttered that evening.  Completely unorthodox and completely genuine.

Mark Twain once remarked that, “Golf is a good walk spoiled.”  Sometimes I think the way we read Torah is a good story interrupted.  It’s almost impossible to build any emotional crescendos when you break it up into five parts, as we do on Rosh Hashanah; six parts, as we do on Yom Kippur; and seven parts, as we do on Shabbat.  Moreover, because so few of us understand the Hebrew, we become dependent on the Mahzor’s translation, and the Torah reading itself becomes background music.  The reading of the Torah, so central to our weekly gatherings, was never meant to be background music.  It was meant to be the symphony.   In a pre-printing press era, when no one had humashim, and not everyone was conversant with the Hebrew, then it was the tool that we used today, the metrugeman—a person conversant with the Hebrew who would translate clause by clause, the Torah reading—which allowed people to both hear and understand and ideally feel the words of the Torah.  I witnessed this ritual myself in Jerusalem several years ago when I made my way into a tiny Yemenite synagogue, and where the Ba’al Keriah, the Torah Reader, stopped after each verse and the meturgeman translated the verse into Aramaic.  Of course, that practice in Israel is the Jewish irony of Jewish ironies.  This group, so stuck in a specific tradition, translated the Hebrew for Israelis who essentially understand the Hebrew, into Aramaic, a language that very few of them understand at all.  But there you have it: a demonstration of the grip that ritual and tradition have on people so much so that these rituals persist long after they make any sense.
 
                During the course of a service, especially one that lasts for four or five hours, one could conceivably drift; maybe even take a little nap.  Of course, this has never happened to anyone in this room, but the service being long and the Hebrew acting sometimes as a stumbling block between ourselves and the prayers, we might just find ourselves elsewhere—figuring out a problem at work, wondering who won’t show up for the yom tov dinner, catching up with a neighbor whom we have not seen in some time, and so forth.  Just as it is with every other space in the world, it is possible to be in one space physically, but to be totally absent at the same time.  And this disconnect is particularly disturbing during prayer, when the point of so many of these ancient traditions is to direct us to being present, being mindful, being aware of the miracle of the moment.  Being present means being engaged.  And being engaged, however it comes about, is a worthy if not sacred objective.

                There’s a beautiful verse in Proverbs about mezuzot petahai, “the mezuzot of God’s entrances.” (Proverbs 8:34).  Rabbi Yehudah bar Sima has a problem with the mezuzot reference (cf. Midrash Rabbah, Ki Tavo, 2).  Why?  Because we may have mezuzot on the doorposts of our homes, but where does God have mezuzot?  And if your answer is the synagogue, which is sort of God’s home, it’s not a very good answer because a synagogue does not require mezuzot.  That’s a bit of trivia everyone should know.  Mezuzot are fixed on the places where you live but not on the places where your work or exercise or even pray.  It’s not wrong to affix a mezuzah there but it is not required.  So Rabbi Yehudah searches for an answer and he explains as follows.   The verse is meant to teach us something about being present.  Just as a mezuzah never departs from the doorpost, so too we should never depart from God’s home, whether the synagogue or the Bet Midrash, the study hall.  As long as we remain present in God’s home we will attain happiness.  And that very verse intimates for all of us how to be present: Ashrei adam shome’a li—Happy is the one who can hear Me [that is, God].  If we are truly present in God’s home, we will be able to hear God.  And if we are not hearing God, it’s not necessarily because God is silent, but it may just be that we’re hearing-impaired, hampered by a spiritual protocol that obstructs our access to the beauty of the mahzor’s words, the cantor’s pleas, or the narratives of our holy Torah.  Today’s experiment was an attempt at getting us to be more present and improve our ability to hear.  Were we successful?  You’re going to let me know between now and Yom Kippur.  We’re going to be sending out a brief Survey Monkey to the congregation in order to collect your feedback on this prayer and study experience.

I understand that this type of service is not everyone’s bowl of chicken soup.  I’m actually not interested in replacing the traditional service that has been the hallmark of our congregation since its inception.  I love that service—all five-and-a-half hours of it.  That classic, unedited service is part of who we are as Jews. But what I think we should consider as a community that serves a broad-base of Jews, a community with a very wide umbrella covering Jews of all backgrounds and temperaments, like ours, is an alternative experience, not because we are trying to dumb-down Judaism, but precisely because we are trying to open it up, to as many people as possible, to all Jews who yearn for an authentic relationship with our tradition and God at this special time of year.

Will some people laugh at a Conservative synagogue conducting a service like this?  Absolutely.  But you know creativity through the ages always invites ridicule.  There’s this great song, written in 1937 by George Gershwin, lyrics by Ira, “They All Laughed”?

They all laughed at Christopher Columbus
When he said the world was round
They all laughed when Edison recorded sound
They all laughed at Wilbur and his brother
When they said that man could fly
They told Marconi
Wireless was phony
It’s the same old cry
They laughed at me wanting you
Said I was reaching for the moon…

Well, that part of the song I needn’t get into.  The point is that innovation, discovery, are rarely viewed in a positive light because human nature is drawn to the familiar, the known (whether it’s right or wrong), the accepted, and is often anxious if not downright fearful of change.  That’s not a criticism; that’s an observation and everyone in this room, myself included, almost always greet change with some degree of concern.  But then as Jews, we have this thing called the Yamim Norai’m, The Days of Awe, days during which we are actually encouraged to do that which we fear most: change.  Question the status quo and ask yourself—could it not be better?

                Abraham Joshua Heschel once said, “To pray is to know how to stand still and dwell upon a word.”  Isn’t that beautiful?  Were we to take Dr. Heschel’s advice, our service would be 10-12 hours in duration.  But maybe what he is telling us is that it’s not so terrible to make some judicious choices in which prayers will be said and which we will save for another Rosh Hashanah in another year, to sacrifice quantity in the service of quality. 

                You know, I reject the idea that man created God.  To me, that’s a declaration of cynicism.  But I do believe we, that all of humanity, are capable of creating the presence of God, given the right words at the right moment.  To do that which brings the presence of God into this space is the whole point of this sacred space.  To ask God to be with us this first day of the New Year, to help us create a loving family, a caring community, an ethical nation, a world that pursues peace…  For us to emerge from this space empowered because we know our hands have become the hands of God in doing the good work of healing on this earth…  For us to begin this New Year with a renewed sense of mission that in fact, we are capable of making a difference in the lives of the people we love the most…  that is no laughing matter.  Why not be bold enough nd flexible enough to create just that sort of havahah, that sort of experience?  That is what an authentic religious experience can be if we only choose to make those changes that will make it so.

Ketivah v’hatimah Tovah—May we all be written and inscribed into that Book of Courage and Daring to do what is best for our fellow Jews and all good people wherever they may reside.

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